| Emotional
Abuse |
Calling you names or
putting you down.
|
| Making you feel bad about
yourself, or telling you no one else would want to go out with you. |
|
| Intimidation |
| Does s/he scare you by
smashing things, yelling at you or driving recklessly? |
| Does s/he follow you
around at school or in the community? |
|
| Isolation |
|
Do you have to justify
everything you do? Every place you go and every person you see to
avoid their temper?
|
| Does s/he use the phone to
monitor where you are or get angry if you're not home when they call? |
| Do you avoid friends or
family doing things you enjoy because of their jealousy? |
|
| Threats |
|
Has s/he ever carried out a
threat to hurt you?
|
| Does s/he threaten suicide
if you leave the relationship? |
| Has s/he threatened to
break-up with you if you do not do what s/he wants you to do? |
|
| Sexual Abuse |
Does s/he make you have
sex when you don't want to?
|
| Does s/he make you feel
unattractive, sexually ashamed? |
| Does s/he constantly
accuse you of flirting with other guys or girls, or act extremely
jealous? |
|
| Physical Abuse |
Has s/he ever pushed or
shove you?
|
Has s/he ever hit,
punched, slapped, choked or bit you?
|
| Has s/he ever tried to
physically restrain you to keep you from leaving? |
| Has s/he ever thrown
something at you to hurt you? |
| Has s/he threatened to use
a weapon against you? |
|
| Contact
Dr. Braley to
arrange a
Violence Seminar for your group. |
